So Grateful For The Odd Rare Twist of Character and Treating Me Nicely on This one off, Today via /r/gratitude

There is a lady at this program that I have not gone to for a year, but have registered and heard how this lady speaks to me, recall how she treated me when I went there and cancelled. Then tried to attend larger events and denied the group outing or denied the group transportation because it has been a long time since I attended, when in reality there would have been no lapse if she were respectful and reasonable but she has some negative attitude or dislike for me and lets it be known who she favors most. I did go to something there Monday but since Tues yesterday, I've been agonizing about calling her for 2 reasons 1- she registered me in the wrong thing which I hadn't asked and I need to cancel with one day notice for another, wanted to give 2 days but could not reach her Mon. I was agonizing and putting off the call, cringing thinking about her cold voice lecture, giving me the gears, denying me something, implying threats about future things or what have you.But I called. I sounded pleasant as I usually do when speaking to her … and was so so surprised, taken aback. It was pleasant. She did not lecture or go on a power trip trying to make me wrong etc Not sure why, maybe because I was over the top making a fuss over how good and enjoyable Mondays thing was with another presenter. Nonetheless I was so relieved and grateful that she did not make things hurtful, angry, tense, stressful, hard and that she was pleasant and she was nice to me. I didn't correct her to say yes she did reg me in the programs when she said she didn't though ( which her email to me said she did…knew better than to correct her, that wouldn't go over well)… I just took in the relief of the moment and I was just becoming more at ease and grateful for this rare odd twist which I wish was the norm instead of the one off, but I'll take it and be grateful for the reprieve, happily. I did not get dumped on by her today. I am grateful and blessed. Made the whole rest of the day better than it would have been and just nice. Got t be grateful for that : )