gratitude for a healthy reaction today via /r/gratitude

i had a friend of mine come at me with a raised voice, aggressive and confrontational. i only said one bad thing to her and then apologized and said i said it to hurt her feelings. i also told her i was proud of myself because normally i go for the jugular with words and have the ability to get physical. i thought she overreacted for sure but i was in her house with her children present. so i kept my calm and let her do her thing. thats what im grateful for. its been years since i have had anyone come at me like this. but i am aware this is how she is now, i see her speak like this to her husband and children raised voice, control issues. i know she has more mental health struggles and takes on stress differently than i do. i apologized to her (this conversation was over a text message btw) and i said im sorry i offended you and you misunderstood my intentions with the text conversation. then she says to me is there anything you think i need to apologize for?!?! lol i said nope…bc im thinking in my head i dont want anything from you anymore. with all that said i also know she is not someone i need to surround myself with any longer so as of today my process to get away from this person begins and she will be phased out of my life.