I am grateful for lossing feelings via /r/gratitude

I am someone who don't fall in love easily so if it's ruined it's ruined for good. I can never love someone again once I lose respect fo them. Because it's a big deal, if I ever loved them it's because they desserved it. So once thats gone I will only feel hurt when seeing them.

But in someway that is not a bad thing. Its good to have clear boundaries and to only give your feelings to those who are worthy of it. Part of me will always grieve loving them, but l'm grateful that I can stop loving when i need to stop loving.

I know they might be good deep inside, ofc they are because I loved them for a very long time. But sometimes its better not to fix things, and to put your morals and your feelings above anything.

It took me a long time to eccept that and i'm grateful that i finally do .

• not sure if this is the right place for this so sorry if it is not