Sometimes I forget how far I’ve come – used to cry for this kind of life, now it’s mine via /r/gratitude

I’ve been feeling really thankful lately. I’m in a relationship where I finally feel secure. I look back at my old Reddit posts filled with doubt, confusion, and poor communication, and I realize how far I’ve come. Now I’m with someone who does everything he can for me and more.

He gives me space to grow, but also offers advice when I need it. When I’m burnt out, he helps me cook. When I’m sick, he brings me hot soup or makes food for me. He drives us around even when he’s tired, and he always makes time for me in ways I don’t always acknowledge.

Sometimes I forget I might be taking all of this for granted.

Outside the relationship, I’m also living a life I used to just dream about. I work from home. I moved out. I have my own peaceful space. No shouting, no chaos. I can cook what I want, eat healthy, and take care of myself. I wake up and it’s quiet. It’s mine. No one invades my space. My job is flexible, I’m good at it, and I feel seen and appreciated.

Of course, there are challenges. I just graduated a year ago. I’m still figuring things out. Living alone for the first time is a big adjustment. But overall, things are actually good. And I want to get better at noticing that instead of always focusing on what’s next.

I’m living a version of the life I used to only hope for. And I’m really grateful.

For the first time in forever, instead of just surviving, I’m learning how to be happy and satisfied.